As kids we get told a lot of lies, and we don’t have the wherewithall to sift the BS from reality.  Of course, I’ve known a lot of adults with this particular handicap too, but that’s beside the point.  The truly scary thing is, when we become parents, we often spout the same nonsense.

“Chewing gum stays in your digestive system for seven years.”  Chewing gum stays in your digestive system for an average of about 20 hours…. like everything else you eat.

“If you don’t wait an hour after eating to get in the swimming pool, you will get a cramp and die.”  I’ve never understood why parents insist on predicting horrific death to children, especially because children aren’t afraid of death anyway.  This is BS, by the way.  Find me ONE person who has died from food-related cramp.  There are none.

This is one I ran into after moving to Scotland.  “Eating cheese after dinnertime gives you nightmares.”  No, but eating cheese does give you high cholesterol.  Don’t think it depends on the time of day.  Why, oh why do we tell kids cheese is good for them?  Don’t give me that calcium BS.. there’s more calcium in brocolli than in milk.

“Don’t cross your eyes or they’ll stay that way.”  A true disservice to cross-eyed kids everywhere.  Not to mention the fact that most kids I know found this an incentive to try to do just that.

“Masterbation will make you go blind.”  Yeah, we’d much rather you go out and have sex at 12 years old, because that, after all, won’t make you blind.  And let’s be sure our kids think sexual feelings are bad.  That sets them up for a healthy adulthood, huh.

“Because I love you, that’s why.”  Translation: “Because it’s easier for me and I don’t want to have to explain myself.”

“Nobody asked you. “  Now this one was usually true, but it’s rude anyway.  What’s wrong with treating children like… oh.. I dunno… people?

“Who do you think you are?”  This is a really weird thing to say to a kid.  Kids don’t sit around and think about who they are.  That’s the job of angsty teens.

“Don’t EVER let me catch you doing that again!” — Yeah, it’s fine, as long as I don’t “catch” you.  Sneaky lessons 101.

“What will the neighbors think?”  Interestingly, studies have shown that your neighbors, like the rest of the world, doesn’t give a shit what you do.  They have their own problems.

“Sit like a lady!”  Telling girls to be ‘ladylike’ is the root of ALL evil.  Being ladylike usually involves looking pretty and shutting the hell up.

“Do you want a time-out (spanking, etc)?”  Now that’s just cruel.  There’s no correct answer to it.  Shall we all just quit asking questions we don’t want answers to?  Kids don’t understand rhetorical questions.

“If God had intended you to wear pierced earrings, He would have made you with holes in your ears.”  Babies also aren’t born with clothes on or speaking “proper” English, but we insist kids do those things.  Don’t try to con your kids.  They really are smarter than that.  If they aren’t, then you have bigger problems then pierced ears.

“Don’t put that in your mouth, you don’t know where it’s been.”  They also don’t know where their brussel sprouts have been. 

“Stop your crying before I give you something to cry about.”  What the hell?  Translation: You’re upset/confused/tired/overwhelmed, and therefore I’m going to hit you.  Yeah, let’s teach children good coping skills here.  I really want to take a frying pan to parents who say things like that.

“I would have never talked to MY mother like that!”  I’ll bet if you asked her mother, you’d get a surprising answer.

“Wear clean underwear in case you get in a car wreck and have to go to the hospital.”  Why not just “Wear clean underwear because shit-stains are disgusting.”  Oh yeah, because we have to threaten kids with bodily harm on a regular basis.

“You’ll thank me later.”  This statement is usually a pretty good BS indicator.

“You won’t always be annoyed with your brother.”  Big lie.  In fact, sometimes your brother grows up to be a jackass and a sociopath, and “annoyed” doesn’t begin to cover it.
 

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